Try to go with a small-to-medium size wedding inviting only close friends and family. You should wear a white or ivory dress/pant suit that is sophisticated and functional. Unless you desire to have bridesmaids and groomsmen you can eliminate this tradition. However, if you have children from a previous marriage this would be a good way to include them. For your reception, replace a disc jockey with a live band and pick a honeymoon destination based on a place both of you always wanted to go.